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This blog article is taken from a recent post by one of our approach coaches and a former client, Lt. Walker, one of Singapore's pre-eminent maestros of the kind of fun and craziness that girls find absolutely addictive, literally. I've seen girls fight off their friends for a chance to keep talking with this man. Guys who still have Approach Anxiety especially should pay extra special attention to his advice. With no further ado...
Hey, Lt. Walker here. Today, I dont have much to talk about, except to share about the topic called FUN. Yeah, I mean the stuff we did when we were five. David has 3 rules which I strongly believe in as well (note: these were originally inspired by Sebastian Drake). I see some of our guys in clubs in Singapore with like super tight skills but are super uptight. So here are some guidelines to live by:
i) Have fun
ii) Make other people have fun
iii) Make connections
Before we can do numbers 2 & 3, we have to learn how to have fun. I wanna share with you guys what I do to ensure I have fun. It took me awhile to break it down. Hope it helps you guys as well!
1) Laugh at everything, especially yourself.
2) Start to make no sense
3) Break your voice patterns
4) Break body patterns
5) Be super sociable
1) Laugh at everything, especially myself
If you can't laugh at yourself, how do you expect someone to laugh WITH you? If I go in with something ridiculous, and get a blow out, I'll just laugh it off with my friends, like dude that was so bad I think I'm gonna have to eat a tub of ice cream to get over that, probably double fudged chocolate. Hahahahaha. Laughing creates a positive emotion. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to know that eh.
2) Make no sense.
This is my favourite and probably the best way to have fun. You can hear me say weird things throughout the night. "Hey bro, I just realised I love chocolate, like I really really love it. I wish charlie from the chocolate factory was real man." If you're really nervous and wanna warm up, I've tried ordering from the bartenders for bubble tea. "Are you sure you dont have it? Ok ok, I'll get a 1807 bottle of merlot wine then." ( PRAY THEY DONT HAVE IT) HAHAHA I talk a lot of silly stuff once you get to know me.
3) Break your voice patterns.
Most of the times when you step into a club you probably got really cracky voice. Sometimes you can hear me just shouting random stuff in the club. Hahaha. Retarded man. But most importantly this gets you out of your comfort zone. That's what you wanna do. Keep getting out of your comfort zone. One step at a time. Just keep doing stuff thats DIFFERENT from what you are used to. It could be any small thing, like wearing your shoes before wearing your socks. Oh wait, that can't be done, but you get the point.
4) Break your body patterns.
This is about the same as he previous one. Do things like the wave. Feel one with the bass (backgroung thumping noise). TAP the girl you wanna talk to. Let your body lead the way. Once you've tapped her you have no choice but to talk to her.
5) Be super sociable.
I usualy just say hello to everyone I pass, walk across, stand beside. Across the traffic light, little puppies on the road, meal worms, and oh yes of course GIRLS. I think it's soo important to get out of your comfort zone, so I just say hello and wave to everyone. [u]b]SURPRISINGLY 90% of the time i get a hello back.[/b][/u] Why would someone say hello back? ermmmmmmmmmmmm, because they wanna talk to you as well ;-) I know man, girls just wanna talk to us and use us for our bodies. Damn! 'Til next time, bros!
